Resources

People and Relationships

• Grounds for Marriage: A Fresh Starting Point for Couples in Crisis - Jade G. Stone
• The Betrayal Bond: Breaking Free of Exploitive Relationships - Patrick Carnes
• Inside Out - Larry Crabb
• Understanding People - Larry Crabb
• Encouragement - Larry Crabb and Dan Allender
• Bold Purpose - Dan Allender and Tremper Longman
• The Road Less Traveled - M. Scott Peck
• Further Along the Road Less Traveled - M. Scott Peck
• The Road Less Traveled and Beyond - M. Scott Peck
• People of the Lie - M. Scott Peck
• Safe People - Henry Cloud & John Townsend
• The Mom Factor - Henry Cloud and John Townsend
• Boundaries - Henry Cloud and John Townsend
• Changes that Heal - Henry Cloud
• Words that Hurt, Words that Heal - Carole Mayhall
• The Verbally Abusive Relationship - Patricia Evans
• Torn Assunder - Dave Carder
• Surviving Infidelity - Rona Subotnik and Gloria Harris
• The Betrayal Bond - Patrick Carnes
• The Relationship Cure - John Gottman
• Family Ties That Bind - Ronald Richardson
• Object Relations and the Developing Ego in Therapy - Althea Horner
• Being and Loving - Althea Horner

Abuse and Trauma Recovery (Sexual and other), and Emotional Healing

• The Wounded Heart - Dan Allender
• Trauma & Recovery - Judith Herman
• Outgrowning the Pain - Eliana Gil 
• The Courage to Heal - Ellen Bass and Laura Davis
• The Secret Trauma - Dianna Russell
• The Sexual Healing Journey - Wendy Maltz
• Naming the Shadows - Susan Roth and Ronald Batson
• A Very Touching Book - Jan Hindman
• Stumbling Toward Faith - Renee Altson
• Too Scared to Cry - Lenore Terr
• Telling Secrets - Fredrick Buechner
• Healing Trauma - Peter Levine
• Her Choice to Heal - Sydna Masse and Joan Phillips
• A Grace Disguised - Gerald Sitser
• The Allure of Hope - Jan Meyers
• Healing the Shame that Binds You - John Bradshaw
• Facing Shame - Merle Fossom and Marilyn Mason
• Healing for Damaged Emotions - David Seamands
• Redeeming the Past - David Seamands
• The Wounded Spirit - Frank Peretti
• Dorie: The Girl Nobody Loved - Dorie VanStone
• No Place to Cry - Dorie VanStone
• The Healing Path - Dan Allender
• To Be Told - Dan Allender
• Growing up Again - Jean Clark and Connie Dawson
• Self Care - Ray Anderson
• The Gift of Fear - Gavin de Becker
• What Freud Didn't Know: A Three-Step Practice for Emotional Well-Being Through Neuroscience and Psychology - Timothy B. Stokes      

Trauma and Memory 

• Unchained Memories - Lenore Terr
• Memory and Abuse - Charles Whitfield
• Redeeming the Past - David Seamands

Sexuality and Sexual Healing

• The Sexual Healing Journey - Wendy Maltz
• Incest and Sexuality - Wendy Maltz
• Passionate Marriage - David Schnarch 
• The Gift of Sex - Clifford and Joyce Penner
• Intended for Pleasure - Ed and Gaye Wheat
• A Celebration of Sex - Douglas Rosenau
• The Act of Marriage - Tim and Beverly LaHaye
• My Beautiful Feeling - Walter and Ingrid Trobisch

Forgiveness and Confrontation

• Bold Love - Dan Allender and Tremper Longman
• Caring Enough to Confront - David Augsburger
• Forgive and Forget - Louis Smedes 
• Forgiving the Unforgivable - Beverly Flanigan
• Difficult Conversations - Douglas Stone, et al.

Recovering Couples

• Outgrowing the Pain Together - Eliana Gil
• The Betrayal Bond - Patrick Carnes
• Ghosts in the Bedroom - Ken Graber
• Open Hearts - Mark Laaser and Patrick Carnes
• The Evaluation and Treatment of Marital Conflict - Philip Guerrin, et al.
• Working with Relationship Triangles - Philip Guerin, et al.
• Family Therapy in Clinical Practice - Murray Bowen
• Family Therapy - Philip Guerin

God and Spirituality

• Inside Out - Larry Crabb
• The Cry of the Soul - Dan Allender and Tremper Longman
• Where is God When It Hurts - Philip Yancey
• Disappointment With God - Philip Yancey
• WhatÂ’s So Amazing About Grace - Philip Yancey
• Searching for the Invisible God - Philip Yancey
• When God Weeps - Rev. Steve Estes and Joni Eareckson Tada
• Blue Like Jazz - Don Miller
• Searching for God Knows What - Don Miller
• Dangerous Wonder - Mike Yaconelli
• Life of the Beloved - Henri Nouwen
• Encounters with Merton - Henri Nouwen
• The Way of the Heart - Henri Nouwen
• The Inner Voice of Love - Henri Nouwen
• Reaching Out - Henri Nouwen
• Awareness - Anthony DeMello
• To Know as We are Known - Parker Palmer
• Simply Sane - Gerald May
• Care of Mind, Care of Spirit - Gerald May
• Will and Spirit - Gerald May
• The Awakened Heart - Gerald May
• The Dark Night of the Soul - Gerald May
• Redeeming Love - Francine Rivers
• Tao: The Watercourse Way - Alan Watts
• The Way of Zen - Alan Watts
• The Three Pillars of Zen - Philip Kapleau

Spiritual Abuse

• Pain: The Gift Nobody Wants - Philip Yancey
• Toxic Faith - Stephen Arterburn and Jack Felton
• False Assumptions - Henry Cloud and John Townsend
• The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse - David Johnson and Jeff VanVonderen
• Churches that Abuse - Ronald Enroth
• Healing Spiritual Abuse and Religious Addiction - Matthew Linn
• Healing Spiritual Abuse - Ken Blue
• Toxic Churches - Marc Dupont

Marriage

• Grounds for Marriage: A Fresh Starting Point for Couples in Crisis, Jade G. Stone
• Grounds for Marriage: If Only I Had Known - John F. Crosby
• Intimate Allies - Dan Allender & Tremper Longman, III
• The Intimate Mystery - Dan Allender & Tremper Longman, III
• In Quest of the Mythical Mate - Ellyn Bader & Peter Pearson
• The Mystery of Marriage - Mike Mason
• Getting the Love You Want - Harville Hendrix
• The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work - John Gottman
• Are You the One for Me? - Barbara De Angelis
• He's Just Not That Into You - Greg Behrendt, et al.
• Passionate Marriage - David Schnarch

Divorce

• Grounds for Marriage: A Fresh Starting Point for Couples in Crisis, Jade G. Stone 
• Growing Through Divorce - Jim Smoke
• Between Love and Hate - Lois Gold
• Joint Custody with a Jerk - Julie Ross and Judy Corcoran
• Divorce and Remarriage in the Bible: The Social and Literary Context - David Instone-Brewer
• Divorce and Remarriage in the Church - David Instone-Brewer
• Divorce and Remarriage in the 21^st Century - David Instone-Bewer
• Grace and Divorce - Dr. Les Carter
• To Have and To Hold - David Atkinson

Dating

• The Tao of Dating – Ali Binazir
• He's Just Not That Into You - Greg Bahrendt adn Liz Tuccillo
• Are You The One for Me - Barbara De Angelis
• Grounds for Marriage: If Only I Had Known - John F. Crosby
• Found on Facebook...Now What? – MaryJane Wilt (coming someday)

Femininity

• Wild Feminine - Tami Lynn Kent
• Powerful and Feminine - Rachael Jayne Groover
• The Sensuos Woman - J
• Honoring The Body - Stephanie Paulsell
• Women Who Run with the Wolves - Clarissa Pinkola Estes
• Captivating - John and Stasi Eldredge
• Do you Think I'm Beautiful? - Angela Thomas
• The Weigh Down Diet Book - Gwen Shamblin
• The Confident Woman - Ingrid Trobisch
• Living on Empty - Mary Jane Hamilton
• Then God Created Woman - Deborah Newman
• Parables for Personal Growth - Melinda Reiniche
• Pursuing Sexual Wholeness - Andrew Comiskey
• Living Waters - Andrew Comiskey
• The Sword and the Stone: A Fable on Femininity Forsaken - Jade G. Stone
• The Sword and the Stone: A Myth on Masculinity Marred - Jade G. Stone
• Why Beauty Matters - Karen Lee-Thorp and Cynthia Hicks
• The Feminine Journey - Cynthia and Robert Hicks

Masculinity

• Wild at Heart - John Eldredge
• The Journey of Desire - John Eldredge
• The Sacred Romance - John Eldredge
• Waking the Dead - John Eldredge
• Dare to Desire - John Eldredge
• Healing the Masculine Soul - Gordon Dalbey
• Fight Like a Man - Gordon Dalbey
• Father and Son - Gordon Dalbey
• Crisis in Masculinity - Leanne Payne
• Growth Into Manhood - Alan Medinger
• The Wild Man's Journey - Richard Rohr
• Pursuing Sexual Wholeness - Andrew Comiskey
• Living Waters - Andrew Comiskey
• The Sword and the Stone: A Myth on Masculinity Marred - Jade G. Stone
• The Sword and the Stone: A Fable on Femininity Forsaken - Jade G. Stone

Sexual Addiction

• Facing the Shadow - Patrick Carnes
• The Recovery Zone, Vol. 1 - Patrick Carnes
• The Recovery Zone, Vol. 2 - Patrick Carnes
• Open Hearts - Mark Laaser and Patrick Carnes
• Don't Call it Love - Patrick Carnes
• Out of the Shadows - Patrick Carnes
• Lonely all the Time - Ralph Earle and Gregory Crow
• False Intimacy - Harry Schaumburg
• Faithful and True - Mark Laaser
• Addiction & Grace - Gerald May
• Pure Desire - Ted Roberts
• Addictions: A Banquet in the Grave - Edward Welch
• Every Man's Battle - Stephen Arterburn and Fred Stoeker
• Parables for Personal Growth - Melinda Reiniche
• Mending a Shattered Heart: A Guide for Partners of Sex Addicts - Stephanie Carnes, Ph.D., ed. 

Relationship Addiction (Co-Dependency)

• Codependent No More - Melody Beattie
• Love is a Choice - Robert Hemfelt, Frank Minirth, and Paul Meier
• Facing Love Addiction- Pia Mellody
• Facing Codependence - Pia Mellody, et. al.
• From Bondage to Bonding - Nancy Groom

Trauma and Addiction

• In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts - Gabor Mate
• Trauma and Addiction - Tian Dayton
• Happy Hours - Devon Jersild
• The Thinking Person's Guide to Sobriety - Bert Pluymen
• The Alcoholism and Addiction Cure - Chris Prentiss

Same Sex Attraction

• Pursuing Sexual Wholeness - Andrew Comiskey
• Living Waters - Andrew Comiskey
• Strength in Weakness - Andrew Comiskey
• Freeing the Homosexual - Andrew Comiskey
• Growth Into Manhood - Alan Medinger
• Crisis in Masculinity - Leanne Payne
• Coming Out Straight - Laura Schlessinger
• A Parent's Guide to Preventing Homosexuality - Joseph Nicolosi
• Healing Homosexuality - Joseph Nicolosi
• Restoring Sexual Identity - Anne Paulk

Parenting

• Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child - John Gottman
• Parenting from the Inside Out - Daniel Siegel
• Growing Up Again: Second Edition - Parenting Ourselves, Parenting Our Children - Jean Illsley-Clark and Connie Dawson 
• Parenting with Love and Logic - Foster Cline and Jim Fay
• How Children Raise Parents - Dan Allender
• How to Raise a Child with a High EQ - Lawrence Shapiro
• Giving the Love that Heals - Harville Hendrix
• How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk - Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish
• For the ChildrenÂ’s Sake - Susan MacAulay
• How to Really Love Your Child - Ross Campbell
• Delight in Your Child's Design - Laurie Sargent
• Shepherding a Child's Heart - Tedd Tripp
• Creative Correction - Lisa Whelchel
• Say Goodbye to Whining, Complaining, and Bad Attitudes - Scott Turansky and Joanne Miller
• The Treasure Tree - John Trent
• A Parent's Guide to Preventing Homosexuality - Joseph Nicolosi

Grief

• Pain: The Gift Nobody Wants - Philip Yancey
• Where is God When it Hurts - Philip Yancey
• Disappointment with God - Philip Yancey
• A Sacred Sorrow - Michael Card
• Shattered Dreams - Larry Crabb
• When Life and Beliefs Collide - Carolyn Custis James
• Five Cries of Grief - Merton Strommen and A. Irene Strommen
• When God Weeps - Rev. Steve Estes and Joni Earisksen Tada
• When I DonÂ’t Desire God - John Piper
• A Severe Mercy - Sheldon Vanauken
• A Grief Observed - C.S. Lewis
• A Grace Disguised - Jerry Sittser
• Believing God - Beth Moore
• In Light of Eternity - Randy Alcorn
• Lament for a Son - Nicholas Wolterstorff
• Final Gifts - Maggie Callanan and Patricia Kelley
• Journey of Desire - John Eldredge
• The Sacred Journey - Frederick Buechner
• Life Lessons - Elisabeth Kubler-Ross and David Kessler
• On Death and Dying - Elisabeth Kulber-Ross
• Tear Soup - Pat Schweibert and Chuck DeKlyen
• Helping Children Grieve - Theresa Huntley
• It Must Hurt a Lot - Doris Sanford